Dating man much younger
It's courteous for both sides to be aware of the reality of the situation, and remember there’s a difference between generosity and showing off.Don’t let her take advantage of you …Unless you want her to - which is fine, but only if you have expectations of a very short relationship.
No, R16, but I think some examination about 'not into guys my own age' is warranted.
I know lots of guys my age (40s) who are hung up on the idea that they want a 20-something boyfriend.
It's just not a reasonable demand..when I dig deeper I see that they are stunted emotionally in some way, and never had that 'perfect boyfriend' when THEY were in their 20's..can't move on from that until they get some young twink to fall in love with them. I meant to add that hooking up with younger guys is a whole 'nother story.
But, they tell themselves they are 'just attracted to younger guys' and they don't dig any deeper than that. Lots of young guys like older guys with big dicks, and good conversation/maturity. But it's unreasonable to believe we, at 40 something, can get ourselves a very young RELIABLE boyfriend. It does happen occasionally, and it isn't always due to money..it's RARE.
Most older guys would do well to think about WHY they are attracted to what they are attracted to.What exactly is it then, OP, that would interest any of us in one of you?